• Cassandra Schmigotzki

Is It Time for Marriage Counseling?



No marriage is ever perfect. There is always room for improvement on both sides of the relationship. It’s hard to live with one person day in and day out. It takes understanding, trust and good communication in order to keep things going. If you’re in a marriage that seems to be more and more challenging as the days go by, it might be time to look for some help from a professional. Marriage counseling can help you both get back on the right track to marital success.


A Lack of or Poor Communication


It’s incredibly important to communicate properly with your loved one if you want to be successful in your marriage. You should be able to tell the person you love how you feel. Your partner should feel that he or she can do the same with you. If there is a breakdown in communication, it can be beneficial to sit down with someone that can hear both sides of the story. A counselor can help guide the conversation in the right direction. A therapist can also teach you ways to communicate more effectively when you are home. You will eventually need to learn how to converse without the help of a professional in order to make your marriage work.


When Couples Keep Secrets


It’s never a good idea for couples to keep secrets from one another. Regardless of what the information is, both parties need to be able to share with each other. This is another big part of communication. According to Couples Academy, not keeping secrets doesn’t mean that you can’t have privacy, it means that you shouldn’t be keeping something from your spouse that directly affects them or would cause a lack of trust between you two. If you or your partner are keeping secrets, it might be time to speak with a professional. A counselor can help you determine why there is an issue with being honest.





What to Expect


It’s important to come to the counseling session with an open mind. Be ready to talk about how you feel. Be ready to listen to what your spouse has to say. Make sure you are using someone that you both trust and feel comfortable with. According to Ed Segawa, the quality and experience of your therapist can determine the outcome of the treatment.


Don’t feel like a failure because you and your partner are seeking help with your marriage. In fact, it shows that both of you care enough about making it work to get help. Be realistic about what the future holds. You’re not going to fix everything in one session.


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